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Have you ever prepared or read a resume that talks about the failures or negative things a person has experienced in their career? Of course you haven’t! When we write our resume it is done so with the objective of selling ourselves to a perspective employer in a way that  will garner us an interview. When we craft a resume we only talk about the good stuff we have done! Even if we had a negative experience we spin it to reflect it in a positive light.

Consider for a moment what a resume of your life would be? I am not talking about your job/career accomplishments, I am talking about your life experiences and all of the roles that you have and do play. What would that resume look like?

Did your thoughts go to all of the things that have happened in your life that you are not so proud of? Remember, a resume is a document of experiences and achievements which demonstrate the beauty of you and does not rehash that which you view as negative experiences.  If a negative experience does come to mind let it flow through your thoughts, look at it from different angles and ask yourself what lesson or what positive was gained from this experience that would reflect well on your resume?

What would your life resume look like? For me an effective resume always begins with a clear objective. In this case the objective might read as follows:

Objective: To expose my soul and allow the love that is the true me to shine through and radiate to the Universe; to demonstrate the beauty and divinity of my being. To remind myself of whom I truly am and to release and forgive myself for all and anything which I continue to carry as a negative experience.

Next comes a person’s qualification which might read as follows:

Qualifications: An eternal being, a divine extension of source, an intrepid traveler along an endless journey who is both a teacher and a student. Currently in human form, having human experiences which are designed for me to accomplish my purpose and grow in wisdom through lessons which are provided to me.

From here you list the many accomplishments and lessons learned, remember all of which match up to your above objective.

References: Here you could list all of the people whom love you and would share that love of you with anyone who asked. Of course this does not need to be limited to those whom you know love you, you could even open this up to the unknown multitudes of people whom you have touched with your love, be it the beggar on the street that you gave money/food to or the elderly person whom you helped up the stairs or the child who was lost whom you helped find their mother. Truly you have positively touched many people in ways greater than you realize.

If you have the inclination and time, writing your personal life resume can be a very loving thing to do for yourself. This exercise helps you to understand and remember the beauty whom you are and how much you mean to all of us as we are all one. Have fun with this.

Once you have completed your life resume remember to update it at least once every six months with all the changes that have transpired along your journey. This document, like you should be every changing, evolving if  you will as you evolve.

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  1. July 10, 2009 at 3:00 am | #1

    All things are in relationships. The path is to move into expanding individual awareness and then to reconnect with collective awareness. Peaceful co-existence is not limiting. As each being is ever-evolving, the journey is not only your journey, but everyone’s journey in which you are an integral part.

  2. July 10, 2009 at 3:34 am | #2

    *kisses Mark*

    Thank you…this is the key to a recent conversation on (my) low self esteem. *runs off to find a pencil and paper for my resume*

  3. July 10, 2009 at 8:12 am | #3

    Thanks a marvellous practise for me right now. Just had an encounter with a lady she hit the right cords when I was talking about my son who is struggling. She told me to focus on my kids as if they were able to do anything
    but first to work on myself and do the same for myself. The way she talked and pierced through me was magic
    That’s why I put the poem up for my kids today to practise

  4. July 10, 2009 at 1:06 pm | #4

    I read the first sentence of your post and thought, “Wow, no I have NOT read any negative resumes…” (thinking you were going to talk to us about making sure we write our professional resumes in a positive way, esp. in today’s job market!). Bear with me – it’s early and I should still be sleeping!

    In any case, all I can say after reading your objective and qualifications is: holy cats, they’re poetic! I felt good as I read them! What a cool post… Thanks for being so creative and writing it!

  5. July 10, 2009 at 1:49 pm | #5

    GREAT idea! I may have to borrow this one for a workshop.

    I once did a portfolio development train the trainer workshop (and subsequently facilitated it) and over the course of 8 weeks, meeting for a day at a time, we developed our own portfolio. It is mostly for career related purposes and potential “college accreditation” but i decided to do more of a personal portfolio. What a great exercise….lots of writing, reflection and pulling together everything from meaningful pieces of work, to photos and certificates etc. It was one of the most self esteem enhancing journeys I had been on, and timely too. It was actually what jump started a lot of my writing and re-ignited my interest in faith.

    This resume idea of yours…AND the beautiful words and descriptions you have used reminds me of this. I will try it out myself.

    thanks Mark….. have a lovely weekend..

    d.

  6. July 10, 2009 at 5:49 pm | #6

    I love this idea! It’s so creative and totally up my alley. If I can find the time between the millions of things I have to get done right now I’m definitely going to write a personal life resume. I bet I’d be really surprised by the results!

  7. July 10, 2009 at 8:00 pm | #7

    Neat concept, Mark! And regular updates are a great idea! We definitely need to remember our life accomplishments.

  8. Gail EIchinger
    July 10, 2009 at 8:23 pm | #8

    Hi Mark -

    I love this idea. I also agree that it is a timely endeavor at first – and then the updates will be less consuming. Unless, of course, some major event happened. Fascinating Mark – “thank you” for the challenge.

    Love to you
    Gail
    peace…..

  9. July 10, 2009 at 8:32 pm | #9

    This is awesome and a great idea! I love this! Thank you for posting! I might also have to borrow this for a workshop!

  10. July 11, 2009 at 12:08 am | #10

    Wow great exercise and nicely written by the teacher student! I think I will do this exercise as my own birthday card…fun to think about on the 10 hours on the airplane coming up.

    Thank you.

  11. July 11, 2009 at 4:53 am | #11

    I love this! it is always interesting to look back over a life and note the experiences, the different lessons that we can find during different phases of our present. I am going to give this a go. The way you describe it, well, it is difficult to resist the challenge/opportunity!

  12. krn
    July 11, 2009 at 6:20 am | #12

    Brilliant and beautifully written. This exercise is a must do and goes right to the top of my coming week’s to do list!

    Thanks and will you marry me, Mark? ;)

    Okay, got a little carried away there for a sec. Truly though, you are a gift.

    *blows a kiss and sends a warm hug with wishes for deep peace and happiness to you*

  13. July 11, 2009 at 9:01 am | #13

    Excellent, Mark. As always, inspirational. Thanks.

  14. July 11, 2009 at 10:26 pm | #14

    What an inspiring idea! I must try this…PLL, C.

  15. July 12, 2009 at 3:22 am | #15

    I like this idea of focusing on the positive!

  16. July 12, 2009 at 7:24 am | #16

    call it wonder? guess what, i happened to do my resume(job) yesterday after a very very longtime. infact i did reflect on the content which neither boosted nor gave reasons but observed that it was just mere facts. Mark, it is obvious that when our thoughts get refined the flow of facts as it is also gets expressed even in our resume for a job.
    But, this analogy of yours is simply superb!!!

  17. July 14, 2009 at 4:11 am | #17

    Thank you!!! I love this blog. Why are so many of us so hard on ourselves????? Reading your blog makes my grim little world a little brighter– thank you! ;)

  18. August 31, 2009 at 4:44 pm | #18

    I am going to add this to my to do list. You are so amazing. How long have you live an authentic life.

    • August 31, 2009 at 8:03 pm | #19

      Grammy,
      Thank-you for your wonderful thoughts! You ask how long have I lived an authentic life, I don’t know the answer, I don’t know if I am yet living an authentic life, I strive everyday towards authenticity, I know that I am closer now then ever before, not sure I am there yet.

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