Alarms – Are You Listening to Yours?

 

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Do you remember when car alarms and shoplifting alarms in department stores use to make people stop and take notice? It wasn’t all that long ago when if we heard an alarm sound that we would actually look to see what was going on. Now, when a car alarm goes off, we hardly bat an eye and if we do it’s usually to complain about how annoying the sounds is and we wish that the owner would shut it off. Even in stores we often hear the alarm at the entrance going off, if we notice at all, we often assume that the clerk forgot to remove the anti-theft tag from something. In a very short time, we have become somewhat indifferent to these types of alarms.

Our indifference towards alarms should be of no surprise to us. We are masters at ignoring alarms. Many of us have internal alarms that go off all the time. Our internal alarms may come in the form of pain, high blood pressure, upset stomach, acid reflux, heart palpitations, etc. These alarms may also come in the form of intuitive knowings, such as red flags that come up in a new relationship or a nagging doubt about some decision that we are making or not making. We become so use to these alarms going off that we begin to accept the alarms as normal and we seek out ways to mask the alarms rather then stopping to listen to the alarm and finding out what is making it sound off.

Many of us love to fool ourselves into believing that the alarm is simply a malfunction that needs to be fixed, and that it really doesn’t have any meaning. Of course, we all know that ignoring our internal alarm system can cause grave damage to our life. We may ignore the physical alarms and end up having a stroke or heart attack. We may choose to ignore our intuitive alarms and dive deeper into a relationship headed for trouble or make a decision which we know is not correct for us, a decision which ultimately creates deeper problems.

We are blessed to have a body and spirit which has built in alarm systems and it is our responsibility to listen to these alarms and to take appropriate action to change our behavior or follow our instincts when the alarms go off.

In many ways our culture has enabled us to ignore or suppress our alarms with the false belief that our alarms are normal and the ones that aren’t “normal” can be fixed (masked) with medications, etc.

I think we all have ignored our internal alarm systems from time to time in our life and paid the consequences. I challenge you today to tune in and really listen to your internal alarms and take the actions necessary to correct what is causing the alarms to go off, that means listen to your intuition and listen to the needs of your body.

What are your internal alarms trying to alert you to?

Is it, better eating habits, the need for exercise, the need to follow your intuition, the need to forgive, the need to let go, etc.

Learn to listen to your alarms and make the changes you need to make in your life to silence the alarms. You will be amazed at the difference this will make in your life!

22 Responses to this post.

  1. This post really “hit home” for me. I think back to high school when the fire alarm would go off. Students and some teachers evolved to assume it was a ‘false alarm.’ I’ve also been a guest in hotels where people assumed the same thing. It reflects the complacency many people about their physical health or well-being before a sudden heart attack. It reflects a widespread indifference about the purpose of raising soul awareness that some people never choose to explore. I like to remind myself we all have choices and life is full of opportunities. We need only decide to open our minds and senses.

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  2. I used to ignore what my body was trying to tell me but the older I get, the more I realise how important it is to not only heed the alarm bells but be proactive in correcting bad behaviours or the signs of impending ill health. We only get one chance at this life (that we know of) and one body to see us through to our ultimate journey’s end. We need to care for and maintain our bodies, make choices that will enhance our experiences and always give just as much credence to our minds as our hearts.

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  3. What great and sound advice! As a society and culture alarms have become more of a cause to be annoyed rather than alert. This type of thinking does us all a great injustice.

    I think that is one of the reasons why I love coming here – to get my daily dose of consciousness. You keep you readers in a state of awareness and remind them to be conscious and mindful of the things they (sometimes) already knew but in today’s often hectic lifestyles so many rarely pause to consider unless prompted to do so. Building awareness into our lives in something that I think we must put conscious effort into on a daily basis. It can be easy to “coast” through life thinking we can go on auto pilot, but even at times when things in our lives seem to be going relatively well, we must never let down our level of awareness.

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  4. Hi Mark:

    What a powerful post for me. If only my husband had listened to the alarms going off in his body he might of been here today. My advice to everyone is to listen to your bodies and take action if something is not right. Thanks Helen

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  5. Are you talking to me?

    *sighs and laughs*

    Yup…gotta listen…gotta listen.

    Thanks for this one.

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  6. So true, Mark. And easily ignored. If you don’t listen to the alarm sooner or later though, you’ll hit a brick wall, at least I do. In fact, I have several times. When I don’t honor who I am, body and spirit, I get sick. Not something easily fixed like the flu, rather the vague stuff like post viral fatigue, repetitive strain injury, loss of voice to name a few. I have learned that the way of the world is not my way, simply by getting sick. Where others could go through life rather unconsciously, I had no choice but to go beneath the surface. I feel blessed to have an alarm that rings sooner rather than later and that simply will not be ignored.

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  7. Hello mark,
    it is always important to heed inner warnings. Sometimes we forget, thinking that the job, money or dates are more important. Thank you for this well written reminder.

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  8. There are some alarms which go off which I know I have to respond to but something stops me. Will try again today. Thanks. Other alarms go off and I know I have to respond to them in order to survive, so I did. But it frustrates sometimes to be restricted. Yeh I am not the easiest to please.

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  9. Posted by alex on March 6, 2008 at 8:42 am

    well timed post. been agonizing about certain decisions at the moment. sometimes it takes great great courage to act on the alarms. not sure if i have that much courage to go against everything of the past and let go and embark on a completely new untraveled path. wish i was able to ignore the alarms…complete state of uncertainty…not good.

    alex

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  10. Liara,
    You are right, it is very easy to be complacent and to assume that everything is a “fire drill”, or this is only an excercise. Many years ago I worked directly with the United States Nuclear defense program. Back then, we ran “Launch” exercises many times and even though we ran through the procedures as if we were engaging in a full scale nuclear war, even then many of us became complacent about assuming that it was just another exercise, that we would go home, have dinner with our families, etc and all would be normal. I guess back then, that was how we kept our sanity.
    It is our choice to be aware and when you really stop and think about it, why would you not want to be fully aware?
    Thanks for your thoughts.

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  11. Gypsy,
    You got it right! We do need to listen to and trust our internal alarms! It may be the very thing that saves our life! Thanks for your thoughts.

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  12. Bop,
    Awareness is key! The more aware we are, the richer our life becomes. Thanks for your thoughts!

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  13. Helen,
    I understand how close to home this one hits. We all can learn a valuable lesson from this page in your journey. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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  14. Delilah Girl,
    Of course I am talking to you! Ha! Glad that this hit a nerve, now it’s all up to you! Be in love and peace!

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  15. Norea,
    It is so true, we all will hit that wall or hit bottom sooner or later if we do not heed the warnings. Sounds like you have developed a healthy awareness of your alarms. Thanks for your thoughts.

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  16. Rainer,
    Ah, understanding what really matters. Truth is that what really matters is rarely what our culture deems important. Great thoughts my freind, thanks for sharing.

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  17. Marja,
    We are all complex, yet simple at the same time. It comes down to a matter of awareness and choices. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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  18. Alex,
    It sometimes does take great courage to let go of the past and live in the now. Once you make the decision to live in the now, you will experience an amazing sense of freedom and of self and you will soon look back in wonder as to why it took you so long to make the change. Live today with passion, courage and full of love!

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  19. :)

    :)

    :)

    I find so much synchronicity these days, it is illuminating.

    Definitely diet. Absolutely raising energy with raw/live alkaline (balanced) foods. What a difference it makes.

    Also, being the boatsman of our mind is so vitally important. What do we row past? row against?

    I watch thoughts go through my (?) mind and let them sweep by in the currents. I used to hold so closely, and then I became entranced with why we judge. (Learning that my attraction to the subject was my own natural inclination to judge). When I refuse to hold on and attach to thoughts, I don’t have to wrestle with judgment as there is no place for it to attach.

    Alarms? Yes.

    Aren’t they wonderful?

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  20. Surface Earth,
    You sound like you are in a wonderful place in your journey. True, we we let go of our desire/habit of judging, so much more opens up to us! Yes, alarms are truly wonderful, even more so when we are aware. THanks for your wonderful thoughts.

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  21. I believe you’ve seen first hand lately my (missing) fingerprints that were doing the work they needed to be doing – that being not blogging – writing or reading blogs and trying to avoid the whole scene since it was not being a good thing in my life.

    Yes, I could pat myself on the back and say, “See? I did a good job writing that and sharing something important with the world.” But it dawned on me the expense it was taking on my life – physically, emotionally and spiritually. I needed to stop and my body screamed at me to stop but it took a while to hear it.

    I’ve dipped my toe in here and there but have largely been trying to stay away and find better outlets that would help me more along the way so that, curiously enough, I might be more able to help others which I believe is the core things that we should do with our lives – our “purpose” if you will.

    I’ve missed it, I’ve missed you, I’ve missed all my fellow bloggers but it’s been both great and not so great for me – either way I know it’s something I’m glad I’ve done. I do hope to write a bit more but the right words have not come yet and being in-tune with the “right time” for me, I’m happy to wait.

    Always love, always peace.

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  22. Ruby,
    It is so good to hear from you. I applaud that you took action on your awareness and have done what is right for you at this time. This is what it is all about. You have listened to your self and have taken the best possible action for this time in your journey.
    I have missed your voice and energy.
    Take care, be in love, peace and wellness.
    Your fingerprints can be found on my soul.
    Thanks for all of your thoughts.

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