Alignment with Source and Purpose – You Deserve …

You deserve happiness, you deserve love, you deserve to live a life of abundance, and you deserve everything that you desire! Are you nodding in your head in agreement? I sure hope so, because it’s true, you do deserve all of this and more.
You are an incredible being who is part of a greater whole, connected to a source, which is pure love, unencumbered by human frailties like ego and self-imposed limitations. You my friend are a powerhouse of energy!
So why then, do so many people walk around this earth looking as if this is such a painful existence, looking as if getting up in the morning was an incredible effort and that they would rather still be in bed that experiencing the incredible journey that they are on?
For a number of reasons I have been at the local shopping malls recently on a much more frequent basis than is my norm. I am struck by the faces and tones of the people I see in the mall shopping. These people with the glum faces do not seem to be enjoying their life, it is as if they are robots, going through the motions of human life.
I feel for these seemingly lost souls.
So if we are such a powerhouse of energy and we deserve all that we desire, why are so many of us, sleepwalking through the human experience? The short answer is, one, we are not aligned with our source, two, because of life circumstances we have allowed our enthusiasm for life to be beat out of us, and three, and this is probably one of the biggest, we have come to believe that we don’t really deserve to be loved, or we don’t really deserve to be happy, etc.
See, we say we want to be loved, we say we want to be happy, we say we want to live an abundant life, however deep down, we don’t buy it. We don’t buy that we deserve these things! Why? Well we don’t believe because we believe we know who we are, that is, what we think, what we have done or not done and we measure our thoughts and actions against the moral yardsticks of our culture, of our religious beliefs, of the ebb and flow of what mass media is projecting and against each other. As we do this, we can all find reasons why we should be punished and not have all that we desire. We internally believe that our life is as it is because of how good or evil we have been in the past.
The truth is that our past does not matter, we can make any changes we desire to make right now, this moment, however to do so we must be willing to quit hanging ourselves for who we have been in the past and choose to live in the now. We must also be willing to quit measuring who we are against everyone else and begin realigning ourselves with our source, with our purpose.
Sounds good, however when does one know when they are aligned with source, with their unique purpose? It really is not as mysterious as it may sound, it’s actually rather simple. You know when you are aligned with source and purpose when you feel joy in what you are thinking and doing! I am not talking about short bursts of joy that you may get from buying something that you want or the joy of having a beautiful physical experience. I am speaking of a joy that you feel to your core, a joy that you instantly recognize as truth, a joy that cannot be shaken by the various events of the day. That joy is what you experience when you are aligned with source and purpose. Want to see what this looks like, find a child and watch them at play, they know this joy, they know what it feels like to be aligned with their source and purpose.
How do you get there from here? You must ask yourself some very tough questions and then be willing to make changes in your life as needed to re-align yourself with source and purpose. The tough question you must ask is, “Do I feel good about what I am doing right now or do I feel out of sorts, not aligned? You will know the truth. Once you start recognizing the things that you are thinking and doing that don’t feel right, you are then in a position to make adjustments to bring yourself back into alignment. As you do this, you will experience a joy that cannot, and should not be contained! You will then become a conduit to spread the word and help to place smile of joy on the people whom you touch! Your energy is contagious, make that energy powerful, make it love and spread the joy!

Mark,
I see the same thing. People who look like they are either in a trance or look like they are being tortured from within.
I want to just grab them and say, “Hey, it can’t be THAT bad.”
I just think people often are precoccupied for various reasons.
I CAN say that I am aligned with my source and it never lets me down. Disappointment is a man-made concept.
We are here to be happy and divine, but we have to tap into the the spring inside of us and we will drink life.
The ole’ conditional Love thingie, again. It’s only under the belief of love upon condition, that ‘deservability’ ever enters the picture.
Greetings. Just wandering around the blogosphere.
So many people have lost touch with themselves and who they are. They are overwhelmed by constant external pressure and expectations. The saddest thing is that a lot of them do not even realise what is happening to them.
“Do I feel good about what I am doing right now or do I feel out of sorts, not aligned? You will know the truth. Once you start recognizing the things that you are thinking and doing that don’t feel right, you are then in a position to make adjustments to bring yourself back into alignment.”
This is the critical question. The question we must ask our core-self and answer honestly, no matter how difficult it is to face. This is the life-saving question. Thank you, Mark. Blessings Galore, MW
There’s for sure a lot of unecessary suffering that goes on because of being out of touch with potential joy, as you so well describe. But I couldn’t help but also think, when you referred to people making an effort just to get out of bed in the morning – it literally takes me at least fifteen minutes to get from my bed to my chair to get on my slippers on to protect my padless feet so I can go on to reach my shoes…
The whole process of reaching the point where I can start the process of getting my breakfast takes about half an hour and is literally a physical struggle.
Do I “deserve” not to have a progressive neuromuscular illness? I don’t really know what that word means in the context of pain and suffering that come from having mortal bodies that falter in some cases earlier and others later. I knew a ten year old boy who died of cystic fibrosis. As far as I can tell, mother nature hasn’t heard of our concept of fairness.
But it sure would be a better world if people put fairness, equality, and justice into practice more widely.
Hi Mark…
Ahhh thank you for your inspiration, your vision, and your wisdom!
I learn so much from you!
Blessings to you,
Jen
tobeme, permit me to ask: do you really believe that I “deserve everything that [I] desire”?
The longer I live I find that I scarcely even know what I desire, and that many of the desires which I am aware of are extremely disparate and even contradictory. I want one thing and yet I want another thing, often at the same time. How, then, can you justifiably say that what I desire is good, when I myself can hardly put into words just what those desires are?
Moreover, looking back over my life I find that many of my previous desires were for what would have been harmful to myself as well as those I love. Had I gotten what I desired in depressive and quasi-suicidal periods I would have wreaked undoubted hurt and harm upon my family and friends.
And yet, going by what you are saying in this post, I should not treat my desires with skepticism or attempt to distinguish good desires from bad ones. How is this positive or healthy or loving?
In respectful dubiety,
Jonathan
thanks for the mo jo.
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Hi Mark,
The British writer Colin Wilson has a great metaphor for this kind of thing:
We’re like a grandfather clock wound up by a watchspring.
I think so many have been taken in by a trivial world today. They don’t live in a world of joy. Rather, they keep battering their heads on material experiences.
Everybody is so caught up in the race to acquire things that the reason to want them becomes lost. We want things not because they will enrich our lives or give us pleasure we just want them because so and so has them so must we. in this race and competition we have forgotten to take a break look and savor what we have take a deep breath and exhale!
Very inspirational! Thanks!
So true. Funny thing, I just wrote about focusing on what you want…
Reading Jonathan’s comment and remembering my own struggles, I know a lot of people cannot accept they are deserving of all that is good in the world, because they have not accepted their own worth. Life is as you see yourself. Recognizing you are worthy simply because you are alive, opens your heart to everything this universe has to offer. Life becomes abundant.
I’ve had glimpses of “alignment”…whispers from teachers who were already there…but it wasn’t until I was 37 that I finally found solid joy…unshakeable because I found my purpose. And you are right Mark…I know that I try to be a lighthouse for others…sure once in a while my light bulb dims (I’m a full-time mom after all)…I need surges from others…but I am so much brighter now…and so damn grateful too!
Alexys,
Very well stated. We must learn to tap into our inner spring, that which comes from our source. Very good, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Sue Ann,
Agreed. THanks for sharing your thoughts.
Timbob,
Thanks for stopping in. Hope to hear from you again in the future.
Nicola,
You are right, many people have lost touch with themselves and are living a very hollow life. It is sad, may we emenate the love that will provide them the light to see. Thanks for your thoughts.
Mother WinterMoon,
Thanks for all of the blessings. I agree this is a critical question that we should be starting and ending each day with. Thanks for your thoughts.
Paul,
I admire the strength you approach every day with. Of course when we talk about deserving, we are talking at a much higher level then our physical shell.
Thanks for your thoughts.
Jen,
If you keep encouraging me like this, I will simply do more of it, ha! Thanks for all of the light that you send my way! Hugs!
Johnathan,
You make a great point. When I say that we deserve all that we desire, I should add a caviat to explain that we deserve that which we truly desire that is in alignment with our purpose and source. You are quite right, that often what we desire on the surface is not the best thing for us or the world. I believe this is why we do not get what we want in an instant. The universe understands our weakeness, and gives us time to discern what we truly want.
There are no “good” or “bad” desires per say, there are simply desires that are aligned with source and purpose and desires which are not aligned. It is up to us to be honest with ourselves and distinguish between the two.
Thanks for your thoughts.
Soul,
Any time, hope you got it back!
Tony,
I agree with you, many people do spend the majority of their time battering away at the external, spending time in an eternal chase that never really ends or satisfies. THanks for your thoughts.
Random Magus,
Yes, many are caught up in the chase of things that they have loss total sight of what they have. Great observation, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Herman,
THank-you!!
Norea,
Many people undervalue themselves and therefore do not feel they are worthy of all that is available to them. Thanks for your thoughts.
Lillith Mother,
I think it is important for eveyone to understand stories like yours. The light often does not come on in an instant, however it is always there, we must be ready, we must be willing to let go and trust.
Thanks for your valued thoughts.
mark..what if the end result of your happiness is the unhappiness of another…
what if by protecting the happiness of the other, your happiness is diminished as well as the happiness of another?
why does it need to be either black or white?
Thanks Mark. It can be good to clarify that, because these days new forms of the theodicy rejected by the Book of Job – bad things happen to bad people and good things to good people – keeps reemerging in new forms, like extreme mind/body holism where everyone who’s physically sick supposedly got that way because of mental/spiritual unwellness. And “prosperity theology.”
Within spiritual and psychological life, it’s very different – as you state in this post, we really do play a large role in how joyful or unhappy we are.