Does Most Leadership Suck? – A Challange

  I have been challenged by John of The Leadership Epidemic to write an article on “Does Most Leadership Suck?”. I have accepted this challenge because I believe leadership is a very important subject.

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Let me start by saying there are great leaders in this world who do an effective job of stewarding people everyday. Many of these effective leaders go unnoticed because they are being effective leaders. Because they are being effective leaders they don’t get much attention in the news or public eye, however they are out there daily do a very effective job of providing solid and effective leadership.

Conversely we often hear news about leaders who appear to be ineffective leaders. The newspapers are full of business leaders and political leaders who are labeled as ineffective leaders. In the work place people are quick to point out leaders who are ineffective or downright incompetent.

So why are there people in positions of leadership who seem to be ineffective leaders? I believe one of the biggest reasons is because people get promoted or hired into leadership positions for reasons that have nothing to do with their ability to be an effective leader, reasons like their level of formal education, political connections or because of their aesthetic qualities.  People who ascend into leadership positions often have had no or very little training on how to be a leader, therefore they tend to lead as they have been led in the past which perpetuates ineffective leadership techniques.

One of the other big issues which impacts people in leadership positions is the people whom they lead are not effective followers. When we are in the role of follower, it very easy to sit back and take a passive role as we watch someone in a leadership role struggle and make ineffective decisions. It is very easy for us to not take responsibility and to hypothesize how we would do such a better job if only we were the leader.

As followers it is important to lead from within the file and ranks of a group, to manage upward and to help those who have been appointed our leaders for whatever reason to succeed. It is the follower’s responsibility to be accountable and to demonstrate behavior, which not only supports the leader but also enhances the leaders ability to lead.

In life we wear many hats, often times we are the leader and often times we are the follower. It is critical that we reflect on both and what skill sets we must develop to both an effective leader and an effective follower.

The next time you find yourself pointing the finger of blame to ineffective leadership, remember to look in the mirror and ask yourself what impact you as a follower had on the persons ability to lead. Did you contribute positively as a follower or like so many did you take a passive or even destructive role as a follower.

I think it is important to note that all of us at times are called to be leaders. Think about the leadership roles you have in your life, parent, teacher, friend, supervisor, manager, etc. What are you actively doing to become a better leader and a better follower?

This brings to mind the quote by Tomas Paine, “Lead, follow or get out of the way”. There is much wisdom in these few words.

30 Responses to this post.

  1. Posted by tumel on September 12, 2007 at 8:40 pm

    A good leader to me would be one who has empathy in what it is they lead in.

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  2. Posted by tumel on September 12, 2007 at 8:44 pm

    I wonder, for instance, if all in the government of the states, were to go to the front lines of the war they support, would they still support what they do.

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  3. I question if people are allowed to be leaders.

    In business, politics, law, teaching, any position; policies of performance and behavior are preset, leaving little room for any real choices, or decisions to be made.

    Consideration of individual situations, or the differences between individual people are rarely allowed anymore, due to all inclusive operating policies.

    A judge is bound by sentencing guidelines, given little room to consider the individuals motivation, or circumstances.

    A business supervisor must follow strict policies, which limits their decisions to hire, fire, promote, implement ideas, make working conditions better, or allow their better workers to receive better rewards.

    All these preset limits can stunt initiative and depress an individuals motivation to go above and beyond the “norm” to achieve. Many find themselves in trouble when they try to go outside the box (policies).

    Leadership is left mainly to how one deals with, or treats people; which is important but not the only quality a leader needs to be successful. Even those interpersonal details must conform to preset policies.

    Guidelines are important and must be followed, but should not be so strict as to be harmful to good operations. Ineffective leadership is often caused by to many restrictions.

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  4. I think that most political leadership sucks….but in most cultures, when leaders are chosen from among those with the greatest wisdom and the most humility and the ability to gather people with willingness, knowledge and honestly to do the jobs that need doing….you end up with terrific leadership.

    That’s not how we do our political leader these days though. That does our culture great disservice.

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  5. Learn something new everyday, I aways thought it was General Patton who used the Quote “Lead me , guide me or get the hell out of my way.” Interpretation is a scary tool of people. I have been told “people are like cattle you put one in the lead and the rest will follow” I think it is important to remember that most people are of average IQ,if so, in this case who we choose as a leader is extremely important. Though we must remember that our political system is based on the electoral college and that it is meant to strike a balance between the minority and the majority. Though it is based on the ideal that we are not capable of choosing a leader. Does leadership suck? That would be like saying all apples in one basket are indeed rotten. If the people’s vote truly counted the last 8 yrs would look extremely different. I think it is sad that the majority of population lay like lambs in silence. For if we gather together in strength we are then considered rebels in rebellion. There are good leaders and bad leaders but as a dear friend of mine who is in politics said ” your not going to be liked by everyone” So the movers and shakers tend to lean towards the squeaky wheel. Good leadership starts with self. Looking at the local political field, I don’t think the best leaders are necessarily in office and I find it much like high school, a popularity stance.

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  6. Posted by Grace on September 12, 2007 at 9:31 pm

    Good morning, Mark :)

    I think it’s interesting that so many of us who believe there are no coincidences, and that everything has a purpose behind it, find it challenging (at times) to apply those same thoughts to leaders who do not lead in the fashion that we think they should.

    For example, the Bush. It’s hard for me to swallow that – in the Grand Scheme of Things – his Presidency is no mistake.

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  7. Hi Mark,
    I think you are a great leader of thought, a stimulator of vision and wisdom. Leading is a challenge in itself and you do it naturally.
    Thank you for your footsteps.

    P.S. I love that quote.

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  8. Thomas Paine said that? When?

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  9. Good points. I”d add that here in the US a real disconnect has developed between “we the people” and our elected leadership. The way our campaigns are financed and the massive influence of major corporate lobbyists – this system is responsible for the people who end up being in leadership positions in goverment and also for their behavior once in office. They’re beholden less to the people than to the most powerful corporate interests such as energy and health insurance companies.

    Simply running for higher office in this country today presumes being a multimillionaire to start with. It reminds me a bit of early in our history when only men who owned land had political power.

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  10. Something tells me that effective leadership, although virtually invisible, is still pretty rare. Then again, maybe I need to broaden my definition of leadership, could it not be said that in almost any scenario involving two or more people, there will be various leadership roles in the relationship(s)?

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  11. I have long been a student of leadership and helped to create an in-depth student leadership training program that evolved over 14 yrs. The first topic that we covered was “followership.” Of course everyone who excitedly enrolled themselves in the “Leadership” training program was at first perplexed with the opening topic being “Followership”, but one cannot be a good leader until they learn to first be a good follower.

    The other thing I think people must learn in evaluating “good” leadership from “bad” leadership is to disassociate the person from what they are leading people to do. One can be a good and effective leader and still lead people to do “bad” things. Hitler was a man with an absolutely horrific agenda and goal, but no one can argue that he was indeed a good and effective leader or he would not have been as successful as he was.

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  12. The scary thing is when people get caught up in leadership titles, positions, and hierarchies. Some of the best leaders sometimes have no title or position at all. On the same token, bestowing upon someone a title or position of authority does not automatically make that person a leader. Truly good leaders do not seek recognition for themselves and it is often a thankless position of service more than anything else, but often times good leadership can evoke just as much criticism as poor leadership. Society and culture, however, sometimes creates an atmosphere where we do not question what we otherwise would because of a person’s leadership title or hierarchy ranking. This can be a very dangerous thing. One of the best commencement speeches I’ve ever heard delivered was entitled, “Question Authority.” I so often wish that I had copies of that address to hand out to people.

    Sorry for the long comment. This is one of the thing I am passionate about.

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  13. Tumel,
    Empathy is certanly one quality of an effective leader.
    To answer your question, I think you would have a mix, some would proudly go, and have in their past, while others would run to Canada!

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  14. TIme,
    Good thoughts. It is true that many people who are in leadership positions are restricted in many ways, however an effective leader will not allow these restrictions to restrict his/her ability to lead. Matter of fact a leader will lead dispite the obstacles put in his/her way.
    Thanks for your thoughts.

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  15. Mark,
    “Lead, follow or get out of the way” does not appear to exist within the writings of Thomas Paine. Please correct me if I am mistaken.

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  16. Greenwoman,
    I agree with you that the American political system is not currently designed to position people because of their leadership skills. Lately it seems to always be a chose of the lesser evil. Thanks for your thoughts.

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  17. Rachel,
    Patton was a big history buff, no doubt that he may have lifted this from Thomas Paine.
    I beleive the electoral system is antiquated. It was designed for a time win the larger part of the population was not educated, nor did they have the opportunity to know the canidates as we do today.
    I agree, we should not generalize that all leadership sucks, for it doesn’t. If it did, we would not be living the lifestyle that we currently do. Thanks for your wonderful thoughts.

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  18. Mark, stop attributing that quote to Paine unless you can find a reference. It’s not trivial to me.

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  19. Whig,
    I did find a reference and that is why I used it. Don’t mean to trivilaize anything. I could be wrong, however that is the name I found when I looked for this quote. Have a wonderful day, smile and be full of love.

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  20. Grace,
    It is hard to believe that Bush’s presidency is no mistake, just as it is hard to believe that Hitler’s leadership of Germany was no mistake. BTW, I am not comparing Bush to Hitler, just using known names.
    Thanks for your thoughts!

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  21. Paul,
    I like the correlation that you have drawn between our current political process and our founding fathers. Very astute observation.
    Thanks for sharing these important thoughts.

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  22. David,
    I would say, yes, you could broaden your definition of leadership. Parent, teachers, etc are all leaders. Most of us, have the opportunity to lead in many facets of our life. I believe that there are many effective leaders, we simply do not acknowlege them, they are rarely highlighted in the public mind. Thanks for your thoughts.

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  23. Bop,
    You make some excellent points. To be an effective leader you must also be an effective follower. True, leadership is not defined by the outcome of what they do as good or bad, it is how they were able to lead people to do what they wanted them to do. It is also true, that many leaders are not in formal roles of leadership. These leaders often are what keep a group glued together and successful dispite ineffective leadership at the top.
    You have had added some great thoughts to this conversation, thank-you.

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  24. Please state your reference, Mark. It’s not enough to just assure your readers that you are correct, when you are not correct. Thomas Paine did not say what you claim he said, unless I am mistaken.

    You are advocating a leader-follower relationship which I cannot participate in, and which goes against everything Thomas Paine believed.

    I now consider you willfully deceptive.

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  25. On the issue of leadership, the best employer I ever had said ” that to be a good leader you must put responsible soldiers in position, for their success shall shine back on their leadership. “

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  26. Posted by tumel on September 19, 2007 at 8:13 pm

    I was thinking about this more, wondering when I follow, why I do. For me when I follow something it is the ideals I follow. Ideals that match my own, ways of thinking that matches my own as well, and I think sometimes I follow along to learn. This way I think I am better able to give support, if support is needed. I do not think I could follow anything or anyone if I felt what I follow or who I follow do not match what I feel my own ideals are somewhat.

    Ideals I think of at the moment are honesty in all things, openness, interigty, passion, non-judgement, fairness and empathy:) If I do not see this, in what I follow, then I can not follow effectively, and if I cannot provide all of this if I am leading, then I feel I cannot lead effectively either.

    Respect is also so very important. But the respect that comes naturally.

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  27. Whig,
    If I am wrong on this quote, that is okay. I can accept that. I do not currently have the time or inclination to research this quote. I used this quote because it delivered the message that I desired to convey. So, please, who do you attibute this quote to. I don’t find that this is something that I care to argue about. If I am wrong, which is quite possible and you are so passionate about attributing this quote to the right person then please enligten us. Thank-you, your thoughts are always welcome.

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  28. Rachel,
    You had a very wise employer for this is very true. Thanks for sharing.

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  29. Tumel,
    Thanks for your thoughts on leadership and followership. You make some great points. One of the traits of a great leader is to lead people to do something which they cannot envision themselve that they can only see through the leaders eyes!

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